COUNSELLING BLOG: 10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. The Constant Victim - This kind of individual will always finds a way to end up as a victim in their relationships.

2. One-Upmanship Expert – This person uses put downs, snide remarks and criticisms, to show that they’re superior, and know much more than you.

3. Powerful…

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HERE IS YOUR SCRIPT:

goldenphoenixgirl:

THEM:

  • “I’m being abused.”
    OR
  • “I was abused.”

YOU:

  1. “I believe you.”
  2. “This matters a lot. I care.”
  3. “It’s not your fault.” 
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COUNSELLING BLOG: 5 Things a Counsellor Should Never Say

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. “I know how you feel.”

  • No-one really knows how another person feels.
  • It sound patronizing and lacking in empathy.
  • It limits exploration of the client’s feelings, and understanding more fully how things appear to them.

2. “It will be all right.”

  • How do you…
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COUNSELLING BLOG: Talking to someone about their mental health problem

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Take the lead: If you know someone has been unwell, don’t be afraid to ask how they are. They might want to talk about it, they might not. But just letting them know they don’t have to avoid the issue with you is important.

2. Avoid clichés: Phrases like ‘Cheer up’, ‘I’m sure it’ll…

Tuesday Apr 9 @ 04:36am
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